TAROT TRIPLETS & BEYOND - THE "RIGHT" QUESTION

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TAROT TRIPLETS & BEYOND - THE "RIGHT" QUESTION

Postby mep on Thu Mar 05, 2009 6:00 pm

Hello, to all the Tarot Triplets participants in particular, but to the whole TFL membership at large too!

Someone asked me about how to phrase a good question for their Tarot Triplets reading, and I thought back to one of the sessions at the 2008 Tarot School Readers' Studio. This session was conducted by Tarot great James Wells. Here are my notes from that session, in case anyone is interested. The graphic is my reproduction of what Wells showed us in his handout for the session. Among other things, you can readily see why "yes or no" questions aren't likely to produce the most powerful readings! - - mep

JAMES WELLS' HIERARCHY OF QUESTIONS

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THE RIGHT QUESTION IS THE ESSENTIAL FIRST STEP TO A GOOD READING.

MY NOTES:

Avoid yes-no questions, negatively worded questions, and questions about OTHER people.

Ask empowering, open-ended questions, beginning with phrases such as “What do I need to know about….?” or “How can I….? These kinds of questions allow the reading to show potential – callings, core possibilities – and then it’s in the querant’s own hands as to how it all plays out. The emphasis in a good question is on enabling and releasing the querant’s personal power.

If possible, avoid questions beginning with phrases such as “Should I….? (implies a judgment – but a judgment according to whom?), or “Will I….? (implies fate – that, something must or must not happen, that it’s pre-ordained.) Tarot does not assume that the querant is merely an actor in his own life, playing a role that someone else wrote, but that the querant is actually the author of his own life.

The less powerful types of questions can be somewhat effective, but only after the more powerful issues of “what” and “how” have been explained.

It is possible to re-phrase “why” and “who” questions into “what” and “how” questions. For instance, the question, "Why do I keep getting into relationships with unstable people?" could become "What within myself prompts me to enter into relationships with unstable people?" or "How can I avoid forming relationships with unstable people?" Or, "Who is my best bet for a business partner?" could become "What qualities will be most important in a prospective business partner for me?" or "How can I best undertake my search for a strong business partner who will complement my methods and ideas?"
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Re: TAROT TRIPLETS & BEYOND - THE "RIGHT" QUESTION

Postby JetAluna on Thu Mar 05, 2009 7:47 pm

Thanks for sharing this, mep! I LOVED that session at RS08. This is probably one of the most useful things I learned. I use the question hierarchy all the time!
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Re: TAROT TRIPLETS & BEYOND - THE "RIGHT" QUESTION

Postby Scamphill on Thu Mar 05, 2009 8:05 pm

I love this Mep, I printed it out to read it slowly as I feel this makes such sense
Thank for sharing
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Re: TAROT TRIPLETS & BEYOND - THE "RIGHT" QUESTION

Postby LesserLady on Fri Mar 06, 2009 10:09 am

Thanks for posting this. It will definitely aid me in prompting others to ask better questions!


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Re: TAROT TRIPLETS & BEYOND - THE "RIGHT" QUESTION

Postby StaceyUK on Tue Mar 10, 2009 1:46 pm

Thanks from me too. Really helpful guide.
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Re: TAROT TRIPLETS & BEYOND - THE "RIGHT" QUESTION

Postby Liam on Mon Mar 16, 2009 4:17 pm

Mep,
this is really useful as I have always found it difficult to gauge what type of questions to ask the Tarot
to yield the most useful information in a answer!
Thanks for sharing this.

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Re: TAROT TRIPLETS & BEYOND - THE "RIGHT" QUESTION

Postby whirlingsufi137 on Wed Mar 18, 2009 2:20 pm

Yes, this is really going to prove very useful to me. Will have to wait to get home from work to print it out. Thank you, MEP. Sufi


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Re: TAROT TRIPLETS & BEYOND - THE "RIGHT" QUESTION

Postby Rhiannon WS on Wed Jul 28, 2010 4:36 pm

I really need practice and would like to start doing the monthly tarot triplets but Im wondering how hard it is to come up with a new question every month....is it acceptable to ask for a general overall energy for the month?
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ps...copied the above info about questions. Very helpful!


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Re: TAROT TRIPLETS & BEYOND - THE "RIGHT" QUESTION

Postby cherlynn on Thu Jul 29, 2010 2:37 pm

Rhiannon,

It's not that difficult. When I can't think of something, I just go with such things as, "Where should my focuses be directed? or What can I expect this month?" General questions, with actually asking for a general reading. Not that asking for a general reading would be wrong or anything. Hope to see you in the Tarot Triplets in August.


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Re: TAROT TRIPLETS & BEYOND - THE "RIGHT" QUESTION

Postby Rhiannon WS on Thu Jul 29, 2010 4:20 pm

Thank you. I will definately be signing up.
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